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Happy Thanksgiving - and what I'm thankful for...

11-28-2013 4,521 views Adoption 14 Comments
Hi everyone. First off - for those who celebrate it, I hope today is a wonderful Thanksgiving for you. As I mentioned in my last blog post, I was working on a "project" for the past few weeks and was not able to blog. Now I'm back home and able to share some good news.

On Thursday, November 14th, my wife and I boarded a flight to Beijing, China. We took off from Lafayette early in the morning (early enough for them to need to de-ice, in Louisiana, I still can't believe that), connected in Houston, then San Francisco, and finally took off to the other side of the planet.

China is - incredible. In ways it reminds of something out of a science fiction movie. You know the country is full of people but you don't really know this. Trust me - you have no idea. I can still remember the sight of 8 or so apartment buildings being constructed at once. And then our car drove past them and I could see what appeared to be about 30-40 or so more past them. I'm talking about one set of apartment buildings. It's trite, but all I could think of was SimCity with a money cheat. Remember the intro to Batman Beyond where the skyline of Gotham gradually reveals an entirely new skyline behind the original? That's what it was like. Heck, even the factories were of an unimaginable size.

Of course, there is great beauty too. In Beijing we visited Tiananmen Square, the Forbidden City, and the Great Wall as well.

Visiting these sites was truly awe inspiring. Again, you aren't truly prepared for it until you are actually there. The Forbidden City was especially amazing. You enter it via multiple "Gates" (which are huge structures themselves) revealing layer after layer of the site. It seems to go forever.

We left Beijing on Sunday and flew to Nanchang. That day we met our new daughter, Maisie. I'm not going to post any pictures because, well, this is public, but she is a healthy, precocious (i.e. naughty), four year old. This is our fourth adoption, and our first from China. This has been in the works for some time now, but I didn't want to talk about until we got back home. Our family now is larger, more wonderful, and without sounding too sappy, I am full of joy at a level I cannot adequately describe.

We spent a few days in Nanchang before eventually flying to Guangzhou. Guangzhou is where the American consulate is and where we did our final preparations. We spent a week there and got to see many sites, but really the time was spent just hanging out with our daughter so she could get used to us.

I had originally planned to write a lot more, but honestly I'm just happy to be back home with my kids. I've got 700 or so photos to go through and there will be work with my daughter to help her learn English, get comfortable with her new home, but this will all come in time.

p.s. You don't know what fun is until a four year old fusses at you in Mandarin. Best - experience - ever.


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  • Commented on 11-28-2013 at 6:42 AM
    Congrats, Ray! I was going to ask if you were going to pick up some Mandarin from the four year old, and I'm guessing after your last comment the answer will be yes :)
  • Commented on 11-28-2013 at 7:09 AM
    Mazel Tov! That is wonderful. Happy thanksgiving
  • Jason Fisher #
    Commented on 11-28-2013 at 8:07 AM
    Very cool, Ray! Congratulations to you and your family, especially to Maisie. A Happy Thanksgiving for the Camdens, indeed.
  • Commented on 11-28-2013 at 8:47 AM
    Congratulations again, Ray! Your new little one would be hard pressed to find a home with more love, and I'm sure the rest of the young ones are excited about their new sister.
  • Commented on 11-28-2013 at 11:10 AM
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  • Micah #
    Commented on 11-28-2013 at 12:03 PM
    Thats too awesome Ray. Congrats!
  • Jack #
    Commented on 11-28-2013 at 6:16 PM
    Big congratulations!!
  • Commented on 11-28-2013 at 10:45 PM
    Congrats Camden family. I know all too well the trip you were on Ray. From Beijing to Guangzho. My wife and I spent most of November 2012 in China adopting a son. It was an amazing trip to be sure.
  • ChangWei Gao #
    Commented on 11-29-2013 at 1:51 AM
    In Beijing, do you spend some time to see our Chairman Mao ?
  • Commented on 11-29-2013 at 5:22 AM
    Wauw, great news! Congratulations!
  • Commented on 11-29-2013 at 5:26 AM
    @Aaron: One thing I didn't mention in the blog post was the constant, sometimes obsessive/creepy staring - did you get that a lot too?

    @ChangWei: We see the Tomb (not sure that is the right name), I mean the line for it, but we did not enter.
  • Commented on 11-29-2013 at 8:17 AM
    Congrats! Looks like it was a pretty amazing trip.
  • Commented on 12-02-2013 at 1:58 PM
    Congrats Ray!!! We just finished our homestudy to adopt our second. What an amazing adventure.
  • Amy #
    Commented on 12-03-2013 at 4:43 PM
    Congrats Ray to you and your family!! :) Hope you all had a very happy and relaxing Thanksgiving!